What Families Are Saying

Williams

The Appleton Family

Although J.R. had never coached Nick in a sport at Landon, we reached out to him the summer before heading into his senior year for guidance on managing college soccer offers he had received. 

From the start, J.R. emphasized the importance of choosing a school that would be the right fit academically and personally – regardless of whether Nick ultimately chose to play soccer. He helped Nick stay focused on what truly mattered in his college experience, manage offer deadlines, and continue productive conversations with other schools of interest. J.R. also offered practical guidance on following up with coaches, evaluating soccer programs, and staying top-of-mind with coaches throughout the recruiting cycle. 

J.R. was able to tailor his advice to Nick’s specific process and college goals, which made his support especially impactful.

J.R. was a great resource and acted as a strong voice of reason for Nick during the later stages of his recruiting process.

Haverford and Cornell

The Bergstrom Family

Starting with our initial meeting, he was direct and transparent. He spoke about our son’s size, ability, grades and all the factors that go into finding a good match. He is an excellent communicator and kept us in the loop on feedback from the coaches, even if it wasn’t good news. Towards the end, he made THE suggestion that ended up being the perfect fit and where my son committed. I’m very much looking forward to working with him again for our younger son and would strongly recommend him to anyone who needs help with men’s lacrosse recruitment. It’s hard to think of anyone with higher lacrosse recruiting IQ than J.R. Bordley. 

The recruiting process can be quite stressful and we were so fortunate to have had Coach Bordley guiding us through.

All-American at Washington & Lee

Will Bou

When I transferred to another collegiate program, I immediately called J.R., and he guided me to look at the school I currently attend, putting me in touch with its coaching staff. I otherwise never would have looked at the college, and thanks to J.R., I made the best decision I’ve ever made and have flourished there.

J.R. truly knows his players which enables him to guide them to schools that best suit them athletically and academically.

All-American at Ohio State

Cullen Brown

Best in the business!

 UVA/Duke

Jack Falk

He was instrumental in my development as an athlete and player. He was also extremely helpful and supportive throughout my recruiting process. J.R. played at the highest level, has helped place many Landon players in top programs, and is well respected in the lacrosse world. I highly recommend working with J.R. 

J.R. is a great coach, mentor, and person.

Georgetown

The Hawkins Family

Our experience working with J.R. on our son’s lacrosse college recruiting was excellent in every respect.

Stevenson

The Hart Family

He was incredibly proactive, following up almost daily, and his deep network and personal relationships with college coaches made a measurable difference. Coaches took his calls, and without his consistent outreach and advocacy, our son wouldn't have received the attention he did. J.R. is genuinely invested in the boys he works with and brings passion, integrity, and unmatched experience to the process. His guidance helped us navigate every step, from understanding program fit and financial considerations to managing communication with coaches after committing. We’re incredibly grateful for his support. And most importantly, our son is committed!

J.R. Bordley played a pivotal role in our son's recruitment journey.

J.R. is uniquely respected among college coaches as a former Division I athlete himself as well as a high school teacher/coach/mentor with a holistic perspective. He took the time to know our son’s game play, academic profile, other interests, and target schools, and then tapped into his vast network to advocate for our son and ultimately find the best match for him. Best of all, he was a voice of calm and realistic optimism when we needed it most! We highly recommend him. 

Bucknell

The Hudson Family

Coach Bordley was a tremendous help to me in my recruiting process.

Navy and Delaware

The Lugar Family

In a recruiting landscape that is often confusing, competitive, and overwhelming, J.R. distinguishes himself as not only an expert guide—but as a relentless advocate and deeply invested mentor. 

J.R. does far more than simply connect players with college programs. He takes the time to truly know each athlete, understand their goals, strengths, and potential, and then helps the player map out a path to success. He gives players something incredibly powerful: belief in themselves and belief that anything is possible. His confidence in their abilities pushes them to rise to higher standards—both on and off the field.

J.R. is a fierce and respected advocate for his players. He communicates clearly, honestly, and persistently on their behalf, ensuring that their talents, character, and work ethic are seen and valued by recruiting coaches. His credibility and relationships within the lacrosse community are legendary—opening doors and creating opportunities for his players—but it is his integrity and unwavering commitment to his athletes that keep those doors open.

Most importantly, J.R. genuinely cares. He is deeply invested in the long-term success, growth, and happiness of every player he mentors—not just in where they commit, but in who they become. Our family is profoundly grateful for his guidance, leadership, and unwavering support. We simply could not have navigated the recruiting journey without him.

J.R. Bordley has been truly instrumental in helping two of my sons achieve their dream of playing Division I college lacrosse.

the journey can be extremely stressful and his guidance and advice throughout helped me find the best spot for me. I can’t thank him enough for his help.

Johns Hopkins

The Mathura Family

Having Coach Bordley on our side throughout JT’s recruiting journey was invaluable as he is as well connected as high school coaches come!

All-American at Bucknell, former professional lacrosse player

Sean O’Brien

From the start of the recruiting process, he sat down to craft a thought out and realistic roadmap. From there, he constantly was actively advocating on my behalf, fielding interest, and setting up introductory calls/meetings on my behalf. As with every player and student, throughout the process, J.R. was extremely beneficial, realistic, and transparent, which ultimately led me to a position where I was very comfortable and encouraged choosing my destination.

J.R. was instrumental in my recruiting process as both a coach and mentor, from a realistic guidance perspective.

He provided spot on insight, guidance and feedback throughout the duration of the entire recruiting process and when the offers for visits and then commitments came in, he thoughtfully listened and provided insightful advice. He was truly at our disposable as a resource and stellar advocate 24/7, and we could not have done any of this without his support both on and off the fields! Thank you, Coach Bordley!
-Proud parents of Johns Hopkins lacrosse commit, JT Mathura, Landon Class of ‘26

Dartmouth

The Schmitt Family

J.R. was instrumental in my son’s recruiting process and successful commitment.

Princeton

The Southworth Family

He knows the coaches, programs, and the process inside and out, and his insights helped us choose the right events, prioritize outreach, and communicate effectively with coaches. College guidance is truly J.R.’s superpower, and his passion for helping the boys shines through. I have no doubt that his support led to the best possible outcome for Caden.

J.R.’s guidance throughout the recruiting process was invaluable.

His guidance, advice, and efforts were extremely helpful to guide us every step of the way throughout the process. He successfully leveraged his strong network in the lacrosse community to help find and pursue the best recruiting opportunities for our son.

Bowdoin

The Swift Family

In keeping with the Bordley name, which is synonymous with excellence in all things lacrosse, J.R. did a superb job helping our son find the best fit for his next chapter in college lacrosse

Bowdoin

The Ulisney Family

Your future student athletes will be very fortunate to have you on their side!

5 star rating from a satisfied "customer"!!

Like he did on the lacrosse field in his day, and with so many of his potential recruits, J.R. knows how to score big for our boys. (He’s one of Landon’s greatest secret weapons. ). Claire Sanders Swift

Penn and Holy Cross

the cassidy family

My twin sons graduated Landon in 2025 and while they enjoyed outstanding senior years, the college recruiting process prior to that was anything but smooth for two late bloomers.

J.R. Bordley was an invaluable resource as we engaged with college coaches 

hoping for an opportunity for our boys to play lacrosse at the Division I level while using their athletic ability to gain admittance into a top tier school. It was a narrow list that would fit what we wanted, and we were late in the recruiting calendar as the boys had already played their junior season. As such, J.R.’s connectivity, advocacy, and communication were paramount to our ultimate successful outcome. Due to his longevity in the game as both a player and a coach, he has relationships and connectivity with most college coaches or programs. Because of these connections he could get us real-time information on what schools were truly interested in our sons and where they stood in the pecking order of recruits. J.R.’s relationships were helpful, but only because of his proactive approach and his willingness to pick up the phone or approach coaches at events to advocate for our boys. Lastly, his ability to communicate with us and our boys as well as the boys’ club coach was tremendously helpful due to the speed with which we had to move so late in the process. There was no ego involved, only a desire to find the best fit for our boys. With the benefit of hindsight, I can say with certainty that J.R. provided us a service through Landon that no other high school offers and when prospective student athletes parents call me to discuss the school, he is one of the first things I bring up as a differentiator.